I messed up spectacularly a bunch of times in my 20s. But I’ve also done a lot right, and I’m glad I figured out some of the “right” stuff that produces massive success and happiness. Some of the “secrets” that the happiest, most successful, most fulfilled people in the world know. But one of the […]


I’ve repeatedly observed one single mindset that causes more failure than just about anything else. I noticed it in myself in my early to mid 20’s, when I was floundering and wasting a shitload of time. And I now notice it in loads of 20 somethings that aren’t where they want to be in life. […]


There’s pretty much only one way to die unfulfilled, and never achieve anything you want in life. It all pretty much comes down to one thing. It’s not being afraid. It’s not “making the wrong decision.” It’s not about not having enough money. And it’s also not about failing to cross things off your bucket […]


Yesterday, many pieces came together and I had one of the biggest “aha” revelations of my life. I want to share it with you because I’m positive it’s going to help you get way more happy, successful, and fulfilled. People are always looking for the secret. The map. To the perfect relationship or the perfect […]


My early 20s was like one kick in the nuts after another. In-case you were living in a bubble, or you were raised middle or upper class, or you were sheltered, real life was probably a shit storm for you. It was for me. I was raised in a mid upper class white area, went […]